What was the first thought that crossed your mind this morning?
Posted on Mar 8th, 2009
by
ruth
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for March 08, 2009:
"I hope I slept in"
I am working 4pm till 1am all weekend. When I come home I have to read a bit to wind down and after last evenings shift did not turn out the light till 2:30 as I stayed awake to finish The Shack.
My son and his girlfriend bounced into my room and when they announced it was 12:30 post-lunch, I was delighted to know I had a great long sleep.
Now I will be refreshed for my shift this evening.
I remember one dream: I had a large pot of something delicious on the stove and unexpected numbers started to gather round my kitchen. At one point I was aware that my ex husband S was there and was so happy to see him, but wondered if he would leave stormy when he realized my friend D was sitting at the kitchen table. S seemed to saunter happily off to the dining room with part of the crowd and I went to sit at the kitchen table with others. Once seated I realized that everyone Including both S and D had moved to the dining room with fun and laughter and that I was alone at the kitchen table - fretting over whether everyone would get along.
lol
I understand the dream completely: quit fussing about being responsible for whether others accept one another. Just love and live and allow them to make choices for themselves.
Mind you there is a detail of the dream I do not yet get. D had combed his hair all flat and parted it to the side. I was just shaking my head quizzical, no time to ask him about it but storing the question away to enquire later. He has gorgeous hair that is best left wild and curly like the halo of Michelangelo's statue. Why the heck would he plaster it down?
I am working 4pm till 1am all weekend. When I come home I have to read a bit to wind down and after last evenings shift did not turn out the light till 2:30 as I stayed awake to finish The Shack.
My son and his girlfriend bounced into my room and when they announced it was 12:30 post-lunch, I was delighted to know I had a great long sleep.
Now I will be refreshed for my shift this evening.
I remember one dream: I had a large pot of something delicious on the stove and unexpected numbers started to gather round my kitchen. At one point I was aware that my ex husband S was there and was so happy to see him, but wondered if he would leave stormy when he realized my friend D was sitting at the kitchen table. S seemed to saunter happily off to the dining room with part of the crowd and I went to sit at the kitchen table with others. Once seated I realized that everyone Including both S and D had moved to the dining room with fun and laughter and that I was alone at the kitchen table - fretting over whether everyone would get along.
lol
I understand the dream completely: quit fussing about being responsible for whether others accept one another. Just love and live and allow them to make choices for themselves.
Mind you there is a detail of the dream I do not yet get. D had combed his hair all flat and parted it to the side. I was just shaking my head quizzical, no time to ask him about it but storing the question away to enquire later. He has gorgeous hair that is best left wild and curly like the halo of Michelangelo's statue. Why the heck would he plaster it down?

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I am hardly a dream interpreter, but I’ll give it a shot. Perhaps the slicked down hair represents a latent fear that his personality, like his hair, will change into something more pedestrian (almost irritatingly so). The fact, in your dream, he and your “X” went off together, and that they got along famously, might reinforce your concern that he will “morph” into your ex-husband, leaving you feeling alone again. Just a thought.
lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol lol
I will have to think on that!
That is a VERY interesting interpretation!